Moving On
February 13, 2007 | Always Real
If you have been reading this blog for very long, then you already know that my pregnancy was, hands down, the most joyful season in my entire life. I loved being pregnant.
When I was pregnant with Sean, I was deliriously (and obnoxiously) joyful. I had a Cover Girl complexion (thanks to the can of sardines and three avocados I ate every day), my hair was full and lustrous and bouncy (probably from the steady diet of Filet-O-Fish). I was never more creative or funny or witty (too bad I didn’t have a blog then) and everyone was nice to me. Oh, and my boobs were very perky too, which is saying something at my age.
I was radiant from the inside out and everyone seemed to take notice of it, which only served to encourage the blue birds to circle around my head and the sun to shine even brighter upon me. I announced to everyone I came in contact with that !* I *! was pregnant! Would you like to touch my tummy? No? Oh go ahead, touch me! No really, touch my tummy Mr. Fed Ex! Do it or I won’t sign for the package!
I don’t know how you would explain a non-hugger like me grabbing the hand of a complete stranger and holding it against her tummy other than wacky hormones. I just don’t know.
I was seven weeks along when I found out I was pregnant with Sean and he came six weeks early, so I figure I got cheated out of at least three full months of fun-filled, sun shining, blue bird singing pregnancy and it still grieves me. That I ever conceived still baffles the best doctors in Dallas, doctors who are extremely nervous to give credit to God for that which is not understood. Yet they have done so.
Up until last week, I held out hope that I would have another child, that I would enjoy another pregnancy. That I would get another miracle. That Sean would have a biological sibling to torment. That those blue birds would circle me one more time. Even though at my age and with my health issues, pregnancy is probably not ideal. But if I could, I would.
But tomorrow, on Valentines Day, that hope is no more. I will be having a complete hysterectomy. And while hope is a good thing, the upside to having none is that you can move on. And that’s what I intend to do. I shall move on grateful for what I have rather than disappointed over what I have not. Gratitude — it’s just a better way to go people.
So. Then. It has been said.
In the meantime, until I’m back in the blogging saddle, I’ll be time-releasing a post or two and beyond that I may post some vintage Antique Mommy stuff from the archives. Thank you in advance to my faithful circle of cyber-sisters who lift and cover me in prayer. You comfort me.
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Oh, I am so sad for you and I will definitely keep you in my prayers. Thank God for Sean, and also that you had such a joyous, happy pregnancy.
February 13th, 2007 at 7:07 amHi,
I’m a new reader. I shall think of you and pray for you tomorrow. Your response to this is admirable–I admire you!
Kim from Hiraeth
February 13th, 2007 at 7:13 amAM, that’s the kind of pregnancy I want. I’ll be praying that all goes well tomorrow…and for your heart.
February 13th, 2007 at 7:21 amBest wishes tomorrow, A.M. How well I remember those same feelings (but I was only 26 and today I’m 44). I’ll anxiously await your return to blogworld.
February 13th, 2007 at 7:25 amAM, I will be praying for you. None of us even know how to pray for your specific needs, but the Holy Spirit will intervene and meet your needs and comfort your heart in a way no one else could even come close to doing.
When you are ready, give adoption some thought. There are so many babies out there needing good homes. Sean could have a baby sister or brother and love that child just as much, if not more so, than if you had given birth to them yourself.
Much love and prayers your way, my sister!
February 13th, 2007 at 7:32 amAll my best to you and your family tomorrow.
February 13th, 2007 at 7:36 amI hope all goes well and your spirits stay high.
February 13th, 2007 at 7:38 ami love reading your blog. i feel like i know you. you have a way with words that just suck in the reader. i’ve told many people about you and how much of an amazing writer you are.
good luck to you tomorrow. i think it’s wonderful that you can look at the positive, that God did give you one wonderful, healthy child that lights up your life. so many people overlook that. if, God forbid, i am never able to conceive again; i will ALWAYS be thankful i got my one little ray of sunshine. the one who is sitting on the couch beside me right now, eating peanut butter crunch, one piece at a time. how sweet life is.
God bless ya, sister! =)
February 13th, 2007 at 7:42 amYou’re such a sweet, funny lady. I pray that all goes well. Thanks for the inspiration today to be thankful.
February 13th, 2007 at 7:44 amPraying for you, sweet friend.
And I love love love your perspective….
February 13th, 2007 at 8:02 amYou’ll be in my thoughts tomorrow. I hope for you a quick recovery. In a selfish way, I wish that for all of us … because we will miss you while you’re gone, but will try to manage with some archived posts!
Best of luck tomorrow! You are an amazing woman!!
February 13th, 2007 at 8:03 amPraise God for in whom all blessings flow, what a blessed gift little Sean is, and how blessed we are to read the touching stories you tell about him.
Best Wishes for a smooth and quick recovery, thinking of you…
Leanne
February 13th, 2007 at 8:11 amAM, I’ll be praying for you tomorrow, and in the next few weeks to come. God bless you for your sweet and positive attitude. As a semi- non-hugger, I’m giving you a cyber squeeze today.
February 13th, 2007 at 8:11 amConcentrate on healing yourself. Things will unfold as they should.
February 13th, 2007 at 8:12 amI’m so glad you are able to face this with such a good attitude. I know I would go kicking and screaming, I’ve told my dh that if I was on my deathbed after giving birth, he is not allowed to let them take my uterus! He’s only allowed to consent after a fight and I will certainly die if I keep it. We’re all dreading my emotions when I can no longer have children. I’m hoping grandkids come along before that happens so I can transition nicely to a new stage first.
February 13th, 2007 at 8:13 amEnjoy the pampering you’ll be getting when you get home from the hospital!
What an amazing and healthy perspective you have! I’m glad your pregnancy with Sean was such a positive experience, what a blessing! How’d you get so lucky with a good pregnancy AND a good boy. :)
February 13th, 2007 at 8:14 amI will be thinking of you tomorrow, remembering you in our prayers. I hope your recovery is smooth, and your new hopes fulfilled in other wonderful ways.
I am so sorry to hear that you won’t be able to have another child. I can somewhat relate. It took us 10 yrs to have our son. I was 35 when we had him and am 43 now. We never got pregnant again after that. You will be in my prayers. We will miss you while you are recuperating.
February 13th, 2007 at 8:15 amI love that you loved your pregnancy. That’s the way it should be! I hope for a swift recovery for you.
February 13th, 2007 at 8:16 amPraying for your surgery and recovery…
February 13th, 2007 at 8:17 amI’m sad yet glad for you. Your positive attitude is the way to go. I’ll be praying for a safe surgery and fast recovery. My SIL had a hysterectomy a few years ago and she had a super fast recovery. Nowadays it isn’t as invasive as it used to be. I loved being pregnant, too. Best wishes!
February 13th, 2007 at 8:22 amTake care of yourself, AM. You will be in our prayers.
February 13th, 2007 at 8:22 amI’m sad yet glad for you. Your positive attitude is the way to go. I’ll be praying for a safe surgery and fast recovery. My SIL had a hysterectomy a few years ago and she had a super fast recovery. Nowadays it isn’t as invasive as it used to be. I loved being pregnant, too. Best wishes!
February 13th, 2007 at 8:23 amDear sister…know that you will be lifted up before the throne of ultimate grace and peace tomorrow. May God surround you with His peace and joy in the midst of it all…He so tenderly and gently loves us and comforts us at all times. Much love and prayers…
February 13th, 2007 at 8:25 amThough I don’t comment often, I read frequently. Blessings to you as you recover from surgery!
February 13th, 2007 at 8:45 amMy prayers are with you as you begin this new part of your life.
February 13th, 2007 at 8:49 amI wish I had something comforting, eloquent or beautiful to say–the way you always do. But, I am at a loss for words.
Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
February 13th, 2007 at 8:50 amAll prayers and positive thoughts coming your way AM!
February 13th, 2007 at 8:52 amMy prayers and positive thoughts will be with you tomorrow!
February 13th, 2007 at 8:59 amYou’re in my prayers during the surgery and in the weeks to follow!!
February 13th, 2007 at 9:18 amYou will be in my thoughts and prayers.
February 13th, 2007 at 9:28 amI have been thru this exact same thing, and I have an only son as well. Your attitude is tremendous. Thank you for posting this - it helps me. I have lurked on your site for some time now and I really love it. I will be praying for you tomorrow. God bless!
February 13th, 2007 at 9:36 amYou are in my thoughts and prayers. Sean and Antique Daddy are blessed to have you in their lives. As am I. ((Hugs))
February 13th, 2007 at 9:38 amGod bless AM. I’ll be thinking of you and praying for you.
February 13th, 2007 at 9:52 amAM, God used your womb to cradled Sean while He knitted him together. He used it to protect and comfort him in his time of growth and vulnerablility. Now he uses your arms. I pray He will cradle you in His arms during your time of recovery and healing. I will be praying for you.
February 13th, 2007 at 9:54 amWe’ll be praying for you. Hope your recovery is quick!
February 13th, 2007 at 10:15 amBig (((((hug))))). That’s all I know to say.
February 13th, 2007 at 10:18 amAM, just to let you know we’ll be praying over on this side of the world as well. Hope you have a speedy recovery and a return to good health so you can continue to enjoy your miracle boy.
February 13th, 2007 at 10:19 amIf I was there, I’d ignore your hugphobia and greet you like an Arab woman–kiss, kiss, kiss! So there :P
Best wishes for your surgery tomorrow. I hope all goes well. Keep up that positive attitude!
February 13th, 2007 at 10:19 amGood luck tomorrow! I’ll be thinking of you!
February 13th, 2007 at 10:21 amI’m sorry for the death of the dream of another child, but thankful with you for the blessing of the child you do have.
My prayers are with you for a safe surgery and a quick recovery.
February 13th, 2007 at 10:33 amBlessings on you! It is so hard to deal with the death of a dream. I am not able to have any more children either and it was hard. But there’s freedom, too. I hope the hysterectomy isn’t because of anything even more serious. I love your blog and read it all the time. Please, take your time getting better!
February 13th, 2007 at 10:33 amAM, you never fail to tug on my heartstrings……whether it’s funny (see “perky” in current writing) and/or insightful (gratitude), I am always blessed so much by reading your post. I felt really good, too, when I was pregnant with my children. I’ve often said (while I’m sure my family was very much aware of) that I felt like I was more at an “even keel” when I was pregnant than any other time in my life. I am sorry that you did not have the other child that your heart so desired. Your little Sean is a very blessed little boy that God chose you to be his mommy. I will pray for you and your family tomorrow. I pray that all goes well so that you can recover in a timely manner. Any of my friends and acquaintances who have had to have a hysterectomy, usually say how much better physically they feel afterwards. Most women struggle for so long with problems from that “area” and all that goes with it, that they don’t realize how much it effects their over-all well-being. Please know that I will miss you while you’re gone. Take care, dear Antique Mommy.
February 13th, 2007 at 10:35 amI am also praying things go well tomorrow for you, AM.Take care and come back soon.
February 13th, 2007 at 10:40 amWhat a wonderful outlook you have! It sounds like a few blue birds are still circling - even without a pregnancy.
Wishing you all the best tomorrow and the coming weeks. I very much enjoy your blog.
February 13th, 2007 at 10:53 amNot so good in the “right words” department, but consider myself pretty good in the praying department. So I’ll go with my stronger suit.
Blessings to you AM. Keeping you and your family lifted up.
February 13th, 2007 at 10:56 amBest of wishes to you and a quick recovery. I was sad to read this post because I feel from reading your blog that you are a terrific mother and I wish all terrific mothers could have as many children as they desire, but it seems to me this doesn’t always happen. I am so sorry.
February 13th, 2007 at 11:06 amWell, I started reading this post laughing as always smiling…..now I’m crying for you. When I stopped breast feeding Miller I cried for 2 days….the sadness of never getting to do this again. AM I’m so so sorry this will go on…remember the wonderful days you carried sweet Sean…remember how much you loved pregnancy….treasure these memories and hold him close to your heart. I have a friend who is having some cervical cancer removed tomorrow she may never have children…you are blessed dear friend,…God shared with you what most women never have. I’ll pray for your quick recovery and for AD and Sean’s patience with you. Good Luck.
February 13th, 2007 at 11:07 amMoving on is a new kind of hope, and bless your heart for taking the step in that direction. You remain a fabulous example to me of hope and joy - Sean is a lucky, lucky boy. Wishing you a peaceful recovery (body and spirit) and a whole bunch of tomorrows full of miracles, big and small! Take care.
February 13th, 2007 at 11:08 amAM, I am a new reader and already love your blog. Even though my own relationship with God has been a bit shaky lately (totally my shakiness, not His) I will be joining these wonderful people in praying for you.
February 13th, 2007 at 11:14 amSome things we understand and some things we don’t on this side of eternity. May God bless you in your joy and in your suffering.
February 13th, 2007 at 11:28 amThank you for sharing.
With BIG hugs and tears,
Jackie
Also praying for your safe and quick recovery.
February 13th, 2007 at 11:38 amIt is so hard to say goodbye. The thought of saying goodbye makes me sad. I guess God is giving you a pretty clear answer that you’re done but I feel for you. May everything go smoothly tomorrow and I wish you peace in this and joy in your family.
As a sidenote, I always remember pregnancy the way you’ve described it but Dan says it wasn’t exactly that blissful. I prefer my selective memory to his any day.
Get well soon.
February 13th, 2007 at 11:44 amSending you thoughts for an uneventful surgery and a speedy recovery.
February 13th, 2007 at 11:47 amI’m sorry. Thank you for sharing Sean with us!
As they wheeled my mother into the OR for her hysterectomy, they said, “Mrs. C, you realize you won’t be able to have more children.” She replied groggily, “Can I keep the two I’ve got?” She kept us!
February 13th, 2007 at 12:14 pmAs you know - I realize altogether too well how you feel. I will be thinking of you in the days to come.
Thank you for being the voice in my head with SO many of your posts. You have been a role model and a great comfort to this other “antique mommy” when there are so few people like us out there.
I hope you come back with more new posts in the future, and until then I will be looking forward to reading what I have missed.
February 13th, 2007 at 12:15 pmYou will be in my prayers. I pray all goes well and that your recovery is quick. I’m praying for peace and strength - and for your family too. I’ll miss you.
February 13th, 2007 at 12:16 pmI’ve been lurking for a while . . . I’m coming out to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I not only pray for a successful procedure and physical healing, but for Jesus’s grace to cover your emotions as well. Looking forward to reading your blog again as soon as you are up to it.
February 13th, 2007 at 12:18 pmI understand completely … I will be praying for you these next few days. Please keep us updated as to how you’re doing!
February 13th, 2007 at 12:19 pmI wish you all the best through your surgery and recovery. You’re in my prayers.
February 13th, 2007 at 12:27 pmGod Bless You.
February 13th, 2007 at 12:30 pmMy thoughts and prayers are with you.
Hope you have a speedy recovery.
I’m a lurker but my prayers are with you!
February 13th, 2007 at 12:32 pmI understand oh so completely what you are saying, for I have the same hopes and dreams. Thoughts and prayers going out to you for tomorrow. Get well soon.
February 13th, 2007 at 12:33 pm((AM)) Will be praying for a swift recovery!
February 13th, 2007 at 12:42 pmI will be praying for you tomorrow and the coming week. Big (((((Hugs))))!
February 13th, 2007 at 12:44 pmOh dear - good luck tomorrow - and a nice fast recovery in the next week. I loved the strawberry story; the simple wonderment when my child says “it’s so beautiful” about some everyday object is a great joy. And I loved your mama’s bit too. Thanks.
February 13th, 2007 at 12:52 pmI’m sorry that you have to have the surgery, but you’re going to love not having periods and the accompanying distress. It is a shame that the bluebirds are not going to fly over “The House of Antique”, because you have the cutest little guy in the world. Your readers will be praying or you and missing your posts. We’ll just have to settle for the archives.
February 13th, 2007 at 1:03 pmI will miss your posts. Get well soon.
February 13th, 2007 at 1:07 pmI’ve started four times to comment, and it all falls apart, but I want to say something. So I’ll just go with Bless You, and hope the Holy Spirit will minister what I can’t find the words to say.
February 13th, 2007 at 1:08 pmI am a long time lurker. I enjoy your blog. I will be praying for you. Get well soon.
February 13th, 2007 at 1:23 pmHi there
I’m a recent reader of your blog and I love your writing, you, your boy, everything. I read your “how I came to be an AM” and I loved that line about the lines in the sand moving. It has stuck with me for days now.
And you’ve done it again - this line
“And while hope is a good thing, the upside to having none is that you can move on.”
makes me think of the positives too.
I pray that you’ll have a super-quick healing and I’m a believer in that totally. I remember when I had my wisdom teeth out - he booked me off for 5 days. Well the very next night I was leading Praise & worship! yes, He can do it!!!
While you’re gone I’ll be the one trawling through your archives LOL
February 13th, 2007 at 1:27 pmI have laughed out loud at your blog but today, I feel your sadness. I’m 47 with a 6 year old and feel my time for being pregnant is over. But I still mourn the loss of a second child from time to time. And it does sound like you will get through this. You have a great kid that needs you!
February 13th, 2007 at 1:28 pmHaving had a hysterectomy, and knowing the sadness of saying goodbye to that dream of another pregnancy, my heart goes out to you. On the other hand, I have been blessed to become second mother to a very special young man, and that is an experience that I would not now trade for anything. God bless you and your family.
February 13th, 2007 at 1:55 pmThinking of you, god bless.
February 13th, 2007 at 2:06 pmMy initial comment poofed, but I wanted to say I understand what you are about to go through as I had my hyster six years ago last week. Not until I was alone did the gravity of the situation hit me, but honestly now I know it was a blessing in disguise.
The best website to visit after your surgery is http://www.hystersisters.com/ - they are informative, lovely, loving and all have been there/done that. It was a tremendous support for me when I started experiencing emotions I never knew existed.
God guide your surgeon’s hands; Godspeed your recovery.
Peace.
February 13th, 2007 at 2:13 pmPraying for your heart right now! It’s amazing how powerful this gift is that God has given to women. Much love and blessings to you as you are letting go.
February 13th, 2007 at 2:15 pmPraying for your heart right now! It’s amazing how powerful this gift is that God has given to women. Much love and blessings to you as you are letting go.
February 13th, 2007 at 2:15 pmYes, I will be praying for you. Your words bless me each day. God bless you. Martha
February 13th, 2007 at 2:30 pmThinking of you, antique mommy. I have a six year old and am coming to terms with that being it. I also realize how blessed I am. God Bless you! Hoping for an easy recovery.
February 13th, 2007 at 2:31 pmOh, AM, I know this has to be difficult for you, even with your sweet spirit about it all. I’ll be thinking of you and praying for you tomorrow. And then I’ll celebrate when you’re back posting again.
February 13th, 2007 at 2:58 pmOh, AM, I know this has to be difficult for you, even with your sweet spirit about it all. I’ll be thinking of you and praying for you tomorrow. And then I’ll celebrate when you’re back posting again.
February 13th, 2007 at 2:59 pmI am thankful that you have a gift of a son and the gift to help others feel like that they can tackle anything, even mommyhood. I will lift you up as you go through this hard time physically and emotionally.
February 13th, 2007 at 2:59 pmYou are in my prayers.
February 13th, 2007 at 2:59 pmOh, AM, I know this has to be difficult for you, even with your sweet spirit about it all. I’ll be thinking of you and praying for you tomorrow. And then I’ll celebrate when you’re back posting again.
February 13th, 2007 at 3:07 pmI just wanted to let you know that I will be praying for you and your speedy recovery. I have one child and have prayed so hard for another one. I like your attitude and hope that I can have one like you. Hope you will be back posting again soon. Jen
February 13th, 2007 at 3:52 pmI will most definitely be lifting you up in prayer. I hope that your surgery goes well and you make a speedy recovery. And, I am sorry that you won’t be able to bear another child. Sean is one lucky dude to have a mom as great as you!!!
February 13th, 2007 at 3:52 pmI pray your recovery will be quick and as painless as possible. God gave you Sean and he will show you what is next. Believe in Him. While you are recovering watch Facing the Giants. It is a great story about faith.
February 13th, 2007 at 4:13 pmLike many others, I just wanted to wish you good luck and tell you that I will be praying for your surgery and for a quick and complete recovery!
I’ll miss your posts!
Sherry
February 13th, 2007 at 4:18 pmI know how you feel and I’m so sorry. Mine happened when I was only 34. The first couple of weeks will be rough but it gets better, physically, quite quickly after that. The mental aspect of this is a lot more difficult and for that, you will most definitely be in my prayers.
February 13th, 2007 at 4:23 pmWe love you, and we’ve got ya covered. :)
February 13th, 2007 at 4:56 pmGood Luck….you will be in my prayers for a very speedy recovery.
February 13th, 2007 at 5:13 pmI will keep you in my thoughts tomorrow. I hope your recovery, physically and emotionally is speedy.
February 13th, 2007 at 5:13 pmPraying for you AM! You touch my heart and my funny bone on a regular basis. Thanks for the daily grins and giggles.
February 13th, 2007 at 5:13 pmI will keep you in my thoughts tomorrow. I hope your recovery, physically and emotionally is speedy.
February 13th, 2007 at 5:13 pmYou’ll be in my thoughts and prayers for a safe surgery and a quick recovery.
February 13th, 2007 at 5:21 pmDear, dear, friend…I’m sending you a cyber hug (whether you like it or not!) and you certainly have my prayers tomorrow and in the coming days and weeks.
As one of your commenters said above, there is a certain peace in moving forward, and I am praying for that peace for you.
You are so dear to us all.
February 13th, 2007 at 5:25 pmSending prayers westward!
February 13th, 2007 at 5:27 pmSweetie…I too had that dreaded hysterectomy….it was a hard thing at the time, but my 3 sons were teens…Now in my late 50’s, I thank God every day for a healthier body, and the rapid recovery I had from that surgery! …oh and the NO MORE periods, what a joy that was! Nowadays, recovery is much faster, and surgeries are much more improved, I know God will hold you in the palms of His hands tomorrow and everyday after….I know this because, I like the 90 some women whom have posted a reply, NEED you and your charm, wit and your splendid take on everyday times….We all need you, so hurry back. God bless you tomorrow and all the time after. I actually have your site on my desktop and I check it everyday!
February 13th, 2007 at 5:45 pmDe-lurking to wish you well and quote everyone above- in my thoughts and prayers tomorrow and in the recovery days ahead.
February 13th, 2007 at 5:48 pmAM, you will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers. Your blog is a part of my every day. I’ve laughed with you; I’ve learned from you. I’m thankful for you.
February 13th, 2007 at 6:00 pmI, too, have loved my pregnancies and feeling the most alive and productive when I was carrying my children. It’s nice to hear your thoughts when so many are very cynical towards motherhood and pregnancy. Praying for you and wishing you a speedy recovery.
February 13th, 2007 at 6:18 pmCan I cry with you? I would say about middle of last year that became a reality for me also. I sat down and had myself a good sobbing. And then I got up, thanked the Lord for my blessings and told Him I am excited about what is to come.
I will be praying for you girl.
February 13th, 2007 at 6:30 pmGratitude. That’s the best way to go. You got it right. I will be praying for you so that everything goes well. And get well soon, we will miss you.
February 13th, 2007 at 6:36 pmI will be thinking of you and praying for you. I wish you and your family all the best. I read your blog frequently. Take care and Godspeed.
February 13th, 2007 at 7:10 pmOh I will be praying for you, hope all goes well.
February 13th, 2007 at 7:47 pmBy the way WHY was your complexion so good during pregnancy? I already have a horrible complexion, and pregnancy it is way worse…
Thoughts and prayers, thoughts and prayers.
And little candy hearts sweet as Sean’s kisses to you.
February 13th, 2007 at 7:53 pmI am so sorry! I will be thinking of you and praying for you! Hope everything goes well for you. I read your blog every day and think it is the best that I have read. Thanks for being so open and encouraging by sharing your personal struggles.
February 13th, 2007 at 7:58 pmCrying and rejoicing with you on this bittersweet day, sweet gal.
February 13th, 2007 at 8:31 pmAntique Mommy, My prayers are with you. God is fullness to us and a willingness to move on into a new phase of life allows us to trust His goodness and wisdom.
February 13th, 2007 at 8:40 pmIt’s Valentine’s day here already (Australia) and the day is beautiful… I am praying that when you arrive on this day that you will find peace in the mad pre-op moments, that you will know that you are held and that your body and heart will find deep healing.
February 13th, 2007 at 8:41 pmHi. I’m a new reader, but I want you to know you will be in my thoughts and prayers tomorrow. May God be with you and your family.
February 13th, 2007 at 8:43 pmI, too, LOVED being pregnant!
I’m sorry that your hopes have ended, thankful that you are healthy (and, of course, have precious Sean). I’ll be praying…
February 13th, 2007 at 8:44 pmHopefully, you have already gone to bed to rest up for tomorrow’s adventures. I just wanted to offer some advice that I often need: Let someone else take care of that…whatever “that” may be. The people closest to you will be looking for ways to help and comfort so give in and let them do your laundry, feed your family, mow your yard, etc. etc. You sound like the kind of person that would do the same for them … and that time will come too. My prayers are with you.
February 13th, 2007 at 10:21 pmPraying for you. I am really sorry for your loss…
Mary
February 13th, 2007 at 11:24 pmRecover quickly, AM! We’ll miss you in your absence. Enjoy all the upsides to having one child (and don’t rule out adoption?). We have one child and although we always planned for more, there is a special family bond that you get with one. Always look on the bright side of life!
February 14th, 2007 at 8:12 amI’ll be holding you and your caregivers in prayer today, AM. May God’s peace and comfort and rest be upon you!
February 14th, 2007 at 9:17 amI’ve been reading your blog for some time, but I don’t think I’ve commented before. Today I want to tell you that I’m praying for you, and that I hope your recovery is smooth and quick. The Lord be with you.
February 14th, 2007 at 9:55 amtears. at work.
thanks for sharing. I hope you feel better very soon. I know that you bring me so much joy and I hope that you have friends around you that bring you the same.
also-stay on top of the medicine. you don’t want to be playing catch-up.
Godspeed!
February 14th, 2007 at 9:55 amPraying for you today.
February 14th, 2007 at 10:33 amYou can bet my prayers and thoughts are with you today and always. May your recovery be swift. I hope you can you feel everyone’s love and prayers surrounding you today.
February 14th, 2007 at 11:49 amYou are in my prayers. I’ve had a total hysterectomy too and I’ve never felt healthier!
February 14th, 2007 at 2:01 pmYou’re in my prayers, AM.
February 14th, 2007 at 2:07 pmPraying for you a full and quick recovery!
February 14th, 2007 at 2:43 pmI just came by today and read this. I am certainly praying for you today that it will be an easy and quick recovery for you.
February 14th, 2007 at 3:16 pmI will ask the Lord to comfort you as well. I am so thankful you have Sean, I love coming here and watching him grow. Thankyou for sharing him.
God Bless you today. Hope to see you soon.
I missed a day of reading your blog and wasn’t aware of this news until today. My prayers are with you, my new friend. I wish you a speedy recovery.
February 14th, 2007 at 4:25 pmI’ve been out of the loop a little bit lately and just read this - I will pray for your recover!
February 14th, 2007 at 5:14 pmOh Antique Mommy,
My heart feels heavy for you. I pray you’ll recover quickly, both physically and otherwise. You are much loved!
Chris
February 14th, 2007 at 5:16 pmI will be praying for a swift recovery for you. I am sorry you have to have this done. Please take care of yourself.
February 14th, 2007 at 5:26 pmI am soooo sorry to hear. I am sending you my thoughts and prayers!
(How wonderful that you had such a wonderful pregnancy!!! How beautiful!)
February 15th, 2007 at 12:52 amWhat a beautiful son you have been blessed with!
Your surgery will have happened by now but like all the others, I am praying for you and your family. May God bless you and keep you safe during this time. May you have lots of comfort and support from those who do life with you. Hugs and love :)
February 15th, 2007 at 3:35 amLord,
I just pray that you would be with this special child of yours, today the day after this major surgery, I just pray that you would give her comfort, while she is recoverying, give her peace and strength. I just ask that you would send the right staff to take care of her, and that she can be an example for you like she is in this blog. I also praise you in advance for her quick recovery, as she leans on you.
In Jesus Name,
Amen
February 15th, 2007 at 8:02 amI’ll be praying for you.
February 15th, 2007 at 8:52 amYou are in my thoughts and prayers. I am new to the blog world and just happened upon you today. Thanks for sharing. May the Lord give you strength for this journey.
February 15th, 2007 at 12:19 pmSo very sorry to hear of this. Missed it until today, but trust you came through surgery well.
I am praying today for your healing. And for you comfort. That the Lord Jesus would envelope you with His love and give you peace as only He can.
The Lord bless you…
February 15th, 2007 at 12:51 pmPrayers, well wishes, and hugs to you and your family.
February 15th, 2007 at 8:22 pmI’m sorry you’re having to have this surgery. I had a partial hysterectomy when I was a late teen. Unfortunately, I never got to experience pregnancy and I never will. Thankfully, I’ve had many years to come to terms with this reality. And it certainly helps that I’ve been blessed with the most precious little boy through adoption.
My friend, who adopted a baby boy after years of infertility, recently had to have a full hysterectomy. For her, being forced to give up hope of becoming pregnant was the toughest part of the ordeal. She’s coping quite well as she heals.
Please know you’re in my thoughts and prayers as you recover from your surgery. May your healing be speedy!
February 16th, 2007 at 11:30 amI’m sorry to hear this news but grateful that you got to experience your little man. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this healing process.
February 16th, 2007 at 9:25 pmI hope the surgery went well. I’m a little late checking in on you. I’m sorry… I know this is a tremendous disappointment for you.
(hugs)
February 16th, 2007 at 10:19 pmI haven’t checked your blog in a few days, so I’m sorry this is after the surgery. I hope everything went really well, and that it turned out to be easier than you expected…at least physically.
My thoughts and prayers are with you!
February 17th, 2007 at 11:07 amYou commented on my blog once…about the Moles. I read your blog from time to time and just found this one. I hope you are doing well after your surgery. If you don’t know about Hystersisters http://www.hystersisters.com ….. take a peek. Its got great help, lots of information and an awesome community of terrific gals.
February 17th, 2007 at 7:10 pmOh, honey, I’m so sorry. I’m very behind this week, so I’m here after the fact. You give that boy of yours an extra big hug; you’re blessed to have him (and we’re blessed to have you).
February 17th, 2007 at 8:17 pmI am a new reader and will be praying for you. I am only 28 and had a partial hysterectomy last month. Hopefully your recovery will be quick. I really expected mine to take more time but within a week or so I was feeling better physically.
I will pray that God heals the rest. Take care of yourself and get plenty of rest.
February 17th, 2007 at 9:45 pmI hope your hysterectomy procedure went well and you are feeling better now. I wish you all the best!
February 18th, 2007 at 8:28 amFrequent reader. Often blessed by you. Know that many are praying God’s peace, blessings and health be granted to you.
February 18th, 2007 at 8:40 pmBless….
I don’t recall how I found your blog, but I’m glad I did! Finally, someone else who understands being an “antique” AND first-time parent! I became a first-time mom at 41 when we adopted our daughters who were 9 and 12 at the time. I definitely appreciate your humor–my daughters think I’m crazy most of the time!!! :-)
February 19th, 2007 at 11:23 amJust read this post. I’m feeling the need to apologize for EVERY time I was sad about not getting a girl baby. I’m sorry (not sure to who) and I’ll try not to let it happen again.
December 7th, 2007 at 4:57 pm